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Andrew Engstrom

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Book reviews by Andrew Engstrom

Strengths Finder 2.0

Strengths Finder 2.0

by Tom Rath

An updated version of the StrengthsFinder program developed by Gallup experts to help readers discover their distinct talents and strengths and how they can be translated into personal and career successes.

Genre: Business & Economics | publisher: Gallup Press | Pages: 175
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Please Understand Me 2

Please Understand Me 2

by David Keirsey

For the past twenty years Keirsey has continued to investigate personality differences, to refine his theory of the four temperaments and to define the facets of character that distinguish one from another. His findings form the basis of Please Understand Me II, an updated and greatly expanded edition of the book, far more comprehensive and coherent than the original, and yet with much of the same easy accessibility. One major addition is Keirsey's view of how the temperaments differ in the intelligent roles they are most likely to develop. Each of us, he says, has four kinds of intelligence, tactical, logistical, diplomatic, strategic, though one of the four interests us far more than the others, and thus gets far more practice than the rest. Like four suits in a hand of cards, we each have a long suit and a short suit in what interests us and what we do well, and fortunate indeed are those whose work matches their skills. As in the original book, Please Understand Me II begins with The Keirsey Temperament Sorter, the most used personality inventory in the world. But also included is The Keirsey Four-Types Sorter, a new short questionnaire that identifies one's basic temperament and then ranks one's second, third, and fourth choices. Share this new sorter with friends and family, and get set for a lively and fascinating discussion of personal styles.

Genre: Psychology | publisher: Prometheus Nemesis Book Company | Pages: 350
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A Grace Disguised

A Grace Disguised

by Jerry Sittser, Gerald Lawson Sittser,

A revised edition, this book plumbs the depths of our sorrows, whether due to illness, divorce, or the loss of someone we love. In coming to the end of ourselves, we can come to the beginning of a new life. Includes a new preface and epilogue.

Genre: Religion | publisher: Zondervan | Pages: 224
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Family Ties That Bind

Family Ties That Bind

by Ronald W. Richardson

Most people's lives are complicated by family relationships. Birth order, our parents' relationship, and the rules we were brought up with can affect our self-esteem and relationships with spouses, children, and other family members. Family of Origin therapy and techniques can help you create better relationships.

Genre: Family & Relationships | publisher: Self Counsel Press | Pages: 142
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Why Marriages Succeed Or Fail

Why Marriages Succeed Or Fail

by John Mordechai Gottman, Nan Silver,

Counters conventional wisdom about marriage and divorce, providing curative techniques and describing how marital satisfaction is not the key to marital stability and arguing can be a healthy sign.

Genre: Family & Relationships | publisher: Simon and Schuster | Pages: 240
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Addiction and Grace

Addiction and Grace

by Gerald G. May

Addiction and Grace offers an inspiring and hope–filled vision for those who desire to explore the mystery of who and what they really are. May examines the "processes of attachment" that lead to addiction and describes the relationship between addiction and spiritual awareness. He also details the various addictions from which we can suffer, not only to substances like alcohol and drugs, but to work, sex, performance, responsibility, and intimacy. Drawing on his experience as a psychiatrist working with the chemically dependent, May emphasizes that addiction represents an attempt to assert complete control over our lives. Addiction and Grace is a compassionate and wise treatment of a topic of major concern in these most addictive of times, one that can provide a critical yet hopeful guide to a place of freedom based on contemplative spirituality.

Genre: Self-Help | publisher: HarperOne | Pages: 240
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Fight Like a Man

Fight Like a Man

by Gordon Dalbey

Examines the real issues men need to confront to become true images of Christ for their family.

Genre: Fatherhood (Christian theology) | publisher: Tyndale House Pub | Pages: 315
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Getting to Yes

Getting to Yes

by Roger Fisher, William Ury, Bruce Patton,

"Since it was first published in 1981 Getting to Yes has become a central book in the Business Canon: the key text on the psychology of negotiation. Its message of "principled negotiations"--finding acceptable compromise by determining which needs are fixed and which are flexible for negotiating parties--has influenced generations of businesspeople, lawyers, educators and anyone who has sought to achieve a win-win situation in arriving at an agreement. It has sold over 8 million copies worldwide in 30 languages, and since it was first published by Penguin in 1991 (a reissue of the original addition with Bruce Patton as additional coauthor) has sold over 2.5 million copies--which places it as the #10 bestselling title overall in Penguin Books, and #3 bestselling nonfiction title overall. We have recently relicensed the rights to Getting to Yes, and will be doing a new revised edition--a 30th anniversary of the original publication and 20th of the Penguin edition. The authors will be bringing the book up to date with new material and a assessment of the legacy and achievement of Getting to Yes after three decades"--

Genre: Business & Economics | publisher: Penguin Paperbacks | Pages: 204
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The Game Plan

The Game Plan

by Joe Dallas

Drawing from 17 years of counseling practice, and using material that he's taught for more than 10 years, Dallas is helping readers face a devastating adversary--pornography.

Genre: Religion | publisher: W Publishing Group | Pages: 224
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The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment

The Gift of Sex: A Guide to Sexual Fulfillment

by Clifford Penner

Clifford and Joyce Penner, clinical therapist and nurse have written a sensitive and forthright guide to understanding sexuality and how it fits into God's design for marriage. This revised and updated version features a new introduction, new illustrations, a section on addictions and the Internet, and a timely discussion on sexually transmitted diseases and their consequences. With the latest information on sexuality and intimacy, this best-selling book is ideal whether you are newlyweds or have been married for many years.

Genre:  | publisher: Thomas Nelson | Pages: 384
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About Andrew

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Andrew Engstrom, MS, LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

Helping couples heal their relationships by first better understanding themselves is what I do as a Christian counselor. I offer you support and insight for overcoming obstacles that stand in the way of forming lasting, fulfilling relationships with others and God. Whether you’re looking for marriage or premarital counseling, together we will strive to learn more about yourself, how you affect others, and how they affect you. With this knowledge, you can learn how to make healthy choices that will help you grow in all the relationships in your life. View Andrew's Profile

Recent articles by Andrew

  • Apr 17 · How to Build Behavior and Emotional Awareness in Relationships
  • Apr 11 · Common Problems in Relationships: Lack of Body Awareness
  • Feb 24 · Creating Safety in Relationships: Crucial Conversations in Couples Therapy
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    602 Valley Street Seattle, WA 98109

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    (425) 939-7959
    10116 Main Street, Suite 204 Bothell, WA 98011

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