You’ve probably heard about the sexting trend among many teens, defined as sexually suggestive texts or photos sent between cellular phones. According to a 2014 study by the journal, Pediatrics, teenage students who received a sext were 6 times more likely to report being sexually active. These types of behaviors also lead to a rise in sexually transmitted diseases and teen pregnancies.[1] Along with sexting, we have Internet pornography and other influences that are leading to a concerning rise in sexual activity and even pornography and sex addiction in teens.
Is My Teen a Sex Addict?
You might wonder at where the line is drawn between what is natural sexual exploration and what is damaging, or even an indicator of addiction. As far as what is morally acceptable, as a parent, that is something you have to consider for yourself based on teachings of Christ. We are not here to set moral boundaries for you or your teen, but we are here to help you encourage sexual health as to what you feel is best for your child.
Common signs of sexual addiction include:
- Compulsive behavior that your teen feels unable to stop despite negative consequences such as health risks, sexually transmitted disease, pregnancy, poor academic performance, and harmed relationships.
- Obsession with thoughts and behaviors that are sexual in nature, often placing these things ahead of other things in life.
- Anger or irritability with discussions surrounding healthy sexual behaviors and precautions for things like sexting, talking with people online, pornography, or sexually active relationships.
